Sunday, November 4, 2012

{a special marriage}

This post is dedicated to my Mom and Dad who would have celebrated their 45th wedding anniversary today.  For those of you who don't know, my Dad passed away from cancer about a year and a half ago.  I am so thankful for the example my parents gave to me and my siblings and to those around them.  No marriage is perfect but they displayed a love and commitment to each other through good times and hard times.

Watching my parents go through my Dad's cancer for ten plus years was an amazing experience for me. They stuck together through a very tough time and showed how the Lord can bless you through those trials.  The last year or so of my Dad's life became harder for him to be mobile and do a lot of the things he was used to doing.  I was blessed to still be at home during this time and witness a wife care for, love and support her husband beyond the emotional and "good feelings" of a relationship.  I was able to witness a husband who loved and appreciated his wife so unconditionally.  And who always had a smile for you, which I know encouraged my Mom.  I will always remember that special bond they shared.

Happy Anniversary, Mom and Dad!  Love you both so much! 

My Dad looked very different at the end due to medications, but he still had his big heart and love for life.  

This one makes me smile.

Saturday, November 3, 2012


After we said "I do", John and I were blessed to go on our honeymoon right away!  We left for the Cities on Sunday and stayed over night: hotel  #1.  Monday we flew out and the first stop was Seattle.  On our way there, one of the stewardesses found out it was our honeymoon and offered us a special gift.  Thank you, Air Alaska!

We arrived in Seattle and got to spend a couple hours there before our connecting flight.

The next stop...HAWAII!  We had about a five hour flight there but it went really good!  As we got closer  they served traditional Hawaiian Mai Tais.  SO good!

We arrived in Hawaii late that night so we had booked a hotel a few minutes from the airport: hotel #2.  The next morning brought our first real glimpse of such a beautiful place.  We checked out and got a cab to Kealia Resort, about 20 mins away: hotel/condo #3.  It was a quieter spot and our condo was about ten feet from the beach and ocean - looking out and seeing the blue water and hearing ocean waves all day long is one of my favorite memories.  

Once we got settled in there we realized we needed food and water.  We also realized the closest store was about five miles away.  So call a cab, right?  Yes, great idea.  But when the cab actually never shows up, this poses a problem.  There we are sitting in this nice condo, on the beach, in Hawaii, and we have no food or water.  The next thing I know, John is in the kitchen getting out a pot and preparing to boil water so we could have something to drink. Haha did I mention we were in a nice condo, on the beach, in Hawaii?  Thankfully we were able to get our rental Jeep the next day!                                                                                         

We loved our stay at Kealia Resort and wouldn't mind going back again!  Once we had the Jeep we were free to explore around the island.  We had a farmers market close to the condo, the best little restaurant that had AMAZING hazelnut milkshakes with actual chunks of hazelnut and a beach to relax on.  Not to mention gorgeous sunset walks!

One night we were able to drive to a Luau and enjoy a great show, a large feast and even a special dance to recognize the newlyweds attending :) 


Newlyweds! The sun was so bright when taking the picture I thought "hey I'm wearing sunglasses so I can just close my eyes and no one will ever see".  Fail.  

This was hands down our favorite restaurant we tried.  The upstairs to it where we ate was like being on ship.  It was open air at night right over the water.  Absolutely wonderful.


We'll call this post good for now.  More to come so stay tuned!

Sunday, October 14, 2012

{Thankful for Today}

I've always viewed Sundays as a bittersweet time.  I love them because it's the time I've always grown up knowing as going to church and having fellowship with other believers.  But I also somewhat dreaded them because it meant the weekend was almost over and the next day was school (in my younger years) or work (my now years). 

But over the last year or so, I've really been wanting to have a better attitude and be thankful for the whole day...not dreading part of it.  The Lord has helped me see the joy in this day He has made and I've finding more and more thankfulness for it. 

Instead of focusing on the parts I didn't like about Sunday, I've come to enjoy all the wonderful things about it; and not to worry about tomorrow {Matthew 6: 25-34}.  I'm thankful the Lord has given us a day to rest and worship Him.  I'm thankful that it's a day I can spend with my husband.  I'm thankful it's a day I can enjoy the little home He's blessed John and I with.  And I'm even thankful it's a day that, in our household, we like watching some football :)

Maybe there's a day in your life that you somewhat dread.  I encourage you to seek the Lord and let Him reveal the joys each day has to bring.

{Psalms 107: 21-22 "Let them give thanks to the Lord for His lovingkindness, And for His wonders to the sons of men!  Let them also offer sacrifices of thanksgiving, And tell of His works with joyful singing."}

Happy Sunday to you all! 

Saturday, September 15, 2012


December 31st, 2011 my best friend asked me to marry him.  And on May 26th, 2012 I promised to love, cherish and respect the one the Lord blessed me with.  What patience and prayers can do.  I love being a wife to John and couldn't be more thankful for the man he is.  I love you, Sweetheart! 

So here it goes.  I'm not much for posting everyday, my last blog will prove that, so bear with me.  And enjoy the random thoughts and occurrences of Mr and Mrs. Macy.